Comments on: Mailorder boyfriend http://www.orsii.com/mailorder-boyfriend/ Mon, 06 Feb 2012 17:07:43 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Matty http://www.orsii.com/mailorder-boyfriend/#comment-348 Matty Mon, 15 Feb 2010 22:18:45 +0000 http://www.orsii.com/?p=2167#comment-348 Don't worry about it! The more you worry about it the more you'll ward off potential great guys. If you stay motivated in the other areas in your life that part will come together... if not then enjoy your time to yourself and with friends/family. Trust me, there is a huge upside to being single and you should enjoy it to the fullest. Reading your recent posts i think you should just try and not think so much. Go enjoy yourself, the culture around you and the music. Stop making things bad when I'm sure they really aren't. Get over it and party. Hehe, hope you don't mind the tough love! Don’t worry about it! The more you worry about it the more you’ll ward off potential great guys. If you stay motivated in the other areas in your life that part will come together… if not then enjoy your time to yourself and with friends/family. Trust me, there is a huge upside to being single and you should enjoy it to the fullest.
Reading your recent posts i think you should just try and not think so much. Go enjoy yourself, the culture around you and the music. Stop making things bad when I’m sure they really aren’t. Get over it and party. Hehe, hope you don’t mind the tough love!

]]> By: guinness http://www.orsii.com/mailorder-boyfriend/#comment-347 guinness Fri, 05 Feb 2010 10:37:28 +0000 http://www.orsii.com/?p=2167#comment-347 stop looking in ldn. they are all hipsters and dandies stop looking in ldn. they are all hipsters and dandies

]]> By: Boris http://www.orsii.com/mailorder-boyfriend/#comment-346 Boris Wed, 03 Feb 2010 21:16:33 +0000 http://www.orsii.com/?p=2167#comment-346 I agree with the whole hobby idea... sports/gym might be a good one to meet up people from the other sex. About the comments that say that you should feel well being single... I find it a bit easy to say. I believe there are people that feel stronger the need to be with someone and after a long time of being single, you need to know that there are people attracted by you out there... More personally, I'd say that being overly busy (for work reasons) is your main problem... I mean, if you don't have time for a hobby, do you have some for a boyfriend? I agree with the whole hobby idea… sports/gym might be a good one to meet up people from the other sex.
About the comments that say that you should feel well being single… I find it a bit easy to say. I believe there are people that feel stronger the need to be with someone and after a long time of being single, you need to know that there are people attracted by you out there…

More personally, I’d say that being overly busy (for work reasons) is your main problem… I mean, if you don’t have time for a hobby, do you have some for a boyfriend?

]]> By: nilez01 http://www.orsii.com/mailorder-boyfriend/#comment-345 nilez01 Tue, 02 Feb 2010 14:12:46 +0000 http://www.orsii.com/?p=2167#comment-345 I never knew you were single! Just send over some nice pictures and I'll set you up :) But for real. I think relationships are one of the hardest things to get right. Sex is easy, but love is a whole different ballgame. Might I also suggest moving to Amsterdam, because the guys are way cuter here. I never knew you were single! Just send over some nice pictures and I’ll set you up :)

But for real. I think relationships are one of the hardest things to get right. Sex is easy, but love is a whole different ballgame. Might I also suggest moving to Amsterdam, because the guys are way cuter here.

]]> By: Trudy http://www.orsii.com/mailorder-boyfriend/#comment-344 Trudy Sun, 31 Jan 2010 23:02:52 +0000 http://www.orsii.com/?p=2167#comment-344 I myself wouldn't go looking on twitter but on the other hand, what do you have to loose. Just beware of all the weirdo's ;-) Going out just amongst girls can't hurt either. Most men are hesitant to approach a woman when she hangs out with a group of mainly guys. Going for a classy/sexy dress also helps. Men fall for it big time.. Not that your need it, i really find you cute and attractive! Btw,everyone i know that's single would also prefer to be in a relationship so you're certainly not alone. I don't know if it applies to you but a lot of people that have difficulties finding a long term partner have issues that they are not always aware of like finding it hard to open up after your heart has been broken too many times.. I myself wouldn’t go looking on twitter but on the other hand, what do you have to loose. Just beware of all the weirdo’s ;-) Going out just amongst girls can’t hurt either. Most men are hesitant to approach a woman when she hangs out with a group of mainly guys. Going for a classy/sexy dress also helps. Men fall for it big time.. Not that your need it, i really find you cute and attractive! Btw,everyone i know that’s single would also prefer to be in a relationship so you’re certainly not alone. I don’t know if it applies to you but a lot of people that have difficulties finding a long term partner have issues that they are not always aware of like finding it hard to open up after your heart has been broken too many times..

]]> By: Blogafaaaa http://www.orsii.com/mailorder-boyfriend/#comment-343 Blogafaaaa Sun, 31 Jan 2010 14:26:39 +0000 http://www.orsii.com/?p=2167#comment-343 You're not the only one my sweet... Being based in London and predominantly in the music industry is unfortunately not conducive to finding love. I think the answer lies in finding ways to become happy on your own. Think about it this way: You are free to do and say as you please, you don't have to answer to anyone and you can be as selfish as you like. Yes the lonliness is quite painful sometimes but there's a lot to be said for being able to pack up your bag and disappear for a bit, or have a moody couple of days without having to take responsibility for how it impacts your partner. Think about what makes YOU happy and enjoy doing those things. I'm pretty sure once you're happy in your own skin and being on your own, you'll radiate the confidence that attracts the kind of man you're after. Don't forget you have lots of lovely friends too, which are worth a million boyfriends :) If that doesn't work for you then let's get dolled up and go speed dating ;) xxx You’re not the only one my sweet…

Being based in London and predominantly in the music industry is unfortunately not conducive to finding love.

I think the answer lies in finding ways to become happy on your own.

Think about it this way: You are free to do and say as you please, you don’t have to answer to anyone and you can be as selfish as you like. Yes the lonliness is quite painful sometimes but there’s a lot to be said for being able to pack up your bag and disappear for a bit, or have a moody couple of days without having to take responsibility for how it impacts your partner.

Think about what makes YOU happy and enjoy doing those things.

I’m pretty sure once you’re happy in your own skin and being on your own, you’ll radiate the confidence that attracts the kind of man you’re after.

Don’t forget you have lots of lovely friends too, which are worth a million boyfriends :)

If that doesn’t work for you then let’s get dolled up and go speed dating ;)

xxx

]]> By: Dr. J http://www.orsii.com/mailorder-boyfriend/#comment-342 Dr. J Sun, 31 Jan 2010 13:33:21 +0000 http://www.orsii.com/?p=2167#comment-342 I can say with a great deal of certainty, that you are not the only person who is single and actually feels slightly sad and lonely. Lots of people are, but in our culture, being single isn't "OK" - we're generally made to feel like something is wrong with us if we are (past a given age) and it's just not true. Wherever we look we're bombarded with images to make us feel like we're incomplete if we're not in a relationship. But from my (very limited, ha ha!) experience, if we find it impossible to be content when single, then we'll never be happy in a relationship. I believe that we were made for relationships, which is why loneliness hurts so much, but I don't think that just finding someone is the solution to that problem. Oh, and my personal opinion of the campaign? (For what it's worth) I don't think it's neccesary. I can say with a great deal of certainty, that you are not the only person who is single and actually feels slightly sad and lonely. Lots of people are, but in our culture, being single isn’t “OK” – we’re generally made to feel like something is wrong with us if we are (past a given age) and it’s just not true. Wherever we look we’re bombarded with images to make us feel like we’re incomplete if we’re not in a relationship. But from my (very limited, ha ha!) experience, if we find it impossible to be content when single, then we’ll never be happy in a relationship. I believe that we were made for relationships, which is why loneliness hurts so much, but I don’t think that just finding someone is the solution to that problem. Oh, and my personal opinion of the campaign? (For what it’s worth) I don’t think it’s neccesary.

]]> By: steve http://www.orsii.com/mailorder-boyfriend/#comment-341 steve Sun, 31 Jan 2010 12:37:36 +0000 http://www.orsii.com/?p=2167#comment-341 There are plenty of great cheap hobbies out there. Like train spotting and building model airplanes. There are plenty of great cheap hobbies out there. Like train spotting and building model airplanes.

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