Comments on: Get a grip woman! http://www.orsii.com/get-a-grip-woman/ Mon, 06 Feb 2012 17:07:43 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: jack http://www.orsii.com/get-a-grip-woman/#comment-280 jack Sat, 31 Oct 2009 16:37:24 +0000 http://www.orsii.com/get-a-grip-woman/#comment-280 i think you just have high standards and you are being tough on yourself. it's constructive to a point, to push yourself, but it can swing in the other direction on occasion. just remember that were all fakes. the main thing is to be a genuine fake! keep doing what you do. i think you just have high standards and you are being tough on yourself.
it’s constructive to a point, to push yourself, but it can swing in the other direction on occasion.

just remember that were all fakes.
the main thing is to be a genuine fake!

keep doing what you do.

]]> By: Jay the Preacherman http://www.orsii.com/get-a-grip-woman/#comment-279 Jay the Preacherman Mon, 19 Oct 2009 13:06:53 +0000 http://www.orsii.com/get-a-grip-woman/#comment-279 Get a grip, indeed!! Hahaha! But i know that feeling... something like that always comes after a nice event, realisation or a happy time! Sometimes after that, you might feel a bit low, you can compare it a bit with a hangover from drinking too much beer! But slightly different. Whenever you start doubting about yourself, just take the time to clear your head and give it some rest. Don't let negative thoughts get you down! I like your show, it's warm and charming, and from the heart! You have a nice selection as well as a nice voice. I wish there were more places where i could listen to shows like this. At my work, or in the car, for example! Oh, and don't compare yourself to others! I heard simular stories from painters or people doing whatever it is they are doing. Getting demotivated from other people who are more skilled, or more talented, etc. Don't let that get you down. You've got to believe in yourself, that makes what you do more fun, and a whole lot easier. Also, the world is filled with people, who all have a wide variety of opinions. You can't possibly satisfy all of them, and you're not even supposed to. You're the only one who has to be satisfied. Keep whatever you need from peoples knowledge or experience, you can always learn new things. Nevermind their opinions, but hold your own. But above all things, keep a positive spirit up, and don't let setbacks make you give up. Keep on keeping on!!! Persistence is the key!! May the Funk be with you!! Hahahaaaa!!!!!! Get a grip, indeed!! Hahaha!
But i know that feeling… something like that always comes after a nice event, realisation or a happy time! Sometimes after that, you might feel a bit low, you can compare it a bit with a hangover from drinking too much beer! But slightly different.
Whenever you start doubting about yourself, just take the time to clear your head and give it some rest. Don’t let negative thoughts get you down!

I like your show, it’s warm and charming, and from the heart! You have a nice selection as well as a nice voice. I wish there were more places where i could listen to shows like this. At my work, or in the car, for example!

Oh, and don’t compare yourself to others!
I heard simular stories from painters or people doing whatever it is they are doing. Getting demotivated from other people who are more skilled, or more talented, etc. Don’t let that get you down. You’ve got to believe in yourself, that makes what you do more fun, and a whole lot easier.

Also, the world is filled with people, who all have a wide variety of opinions. You can’t possibly satisfy all of them, and you’re not even supposed to. You’re the only one who has to be satisfied. Keep whatever you need from peoples knowledge or experience, you can always learn new things. Nevermind their opinions, but hold your own.

But above all things,
keep a positive spirit up, and don’t let setbacks make you give up. Keep on keeping on!!!
Persistence is the key!!

May the Funk be with you!!

Hahahaaaa!!!!!!

]]> By: jamie http://www.orsii.com/get-a-grip-woman/#comment-278 jamie Sun, 18 Oct 2009 18:56:39 +0000 http://www.orsii.com/get-a-grip-woman/#comment-278 all that above sounds like how i feel 99% of the time. then you find out someone like orsi is listening, who cares, and it's all worth it. all that above sounds like how i feel 99% of the time. then you find out someone like orsi is listening, who cares, and it’s all worth it.

]]> By: Neil http://www.orsii.com/get-a-grip-woman/#comment-277 Neil Sat, 17 Oct 2009 10:02:33 +0000 http://www.orsii.com/get-a-grip-woman/#comment-277 Orsolya, I have known you for a long time and I couldn't disagree more. Even if you contribute nothing else to 'the music scene', last week I bought an Esbjörn Svensson Trio LP because of your radio show so you clearly exert some influence... I love your show not only because your personally shines through, but because you cover such variety from week to week. There may be better specialists in particular areas but you show uninitiated people like me such a broad spectrum of music I would never experience on my own. So please keep it up, be confident in yourself, and remember that there are loads of people out there that appreciate what you do and who you are =) Neil. x Orsolya, I have known you for a long time and I couldn’t disagree more. Even if you contribute nothing else to ‘the music scene’, last week I bought an Esbjörn Svensson Trio LP because of your radio show so you clearly exert some influence… I love your show not only because your personally shines through, but because you cover such variety from week to week. There may be better specialists in particular areas but you show uninitiated people like me such a broad spectrum of music I would never experience on my own. So please keep it up, be confident in yourself, and remember that there are loads of people out there that appreciate what you do and who you are =)

Neil. x

]]> By: Matty http://www.orsii.com/get-a-grip-woman/#comment-276 Matty Fri, 16 Oct 2009 17:10:48 +0000 http://www.orsii.com/get-a-grip-woman/#comment-276 Ya Smarten up! Like I said before I deal with a lot of the same things as you... but the thing that helps me is to figure out if you enjoy the process of what you do. If you do than just do it for that. If you don't than do something different that you do enjoy. Ya Smarten up! Like I said before I deal with a lot of the same things as you… but the thing that helps me is to figure out if you enjoy the process of what you do. If you do than just do it for that. If you don’t than do something different that you do enjoy.

]]> By: Gav http://www.orsii.com/get-a-grip-woman/#comment-275 Gav Fri, 16 Oct 2009 16:45:51 +0000 http://www.orsii.com/get-a-grip-woman/#comment-275 People genuinely love what you do and everything you create is consistently of an extremely high standard. To an extent, without competition, there would be no progression - but that's a very general statement. I know you are always very appreciative of the kind words people give you and you believe that they enjoy what you do, but you seem to struggle so much to truly accept that what you do IS actually excellent and worthwhile. It could be viewed as humility, which is a fantastic virtue to possess, but it seems to affect you negatively, which is obviously a great shame. We're all human, we're all self-conscious about multiple facets of our lives. I constantly worry that the things I do aren't up to scratch, or that I'm irrelevant to the causes I choose to involve myself in, but I guess I try to strike a balance so I can accept that there's always room for growth, always someone else doing it better somewhere, but... I'm thankful for the people who do I appreciate the things I do and it motivates me to do more. There's most certainly no need for you to apologise, particularly with regards to the quality of your work, because I can find a thousand people who would all say - with total sincerity - that you are brilliant. Perhaps you are just having one of those days. Chin up and keep smiling, you've got a nice smile, so use it! Have fun in Belgium this weekend. :-) People genuinely love what you do and everything you create is consistently of an extremely high standard.

To an extent, without competition, there would be no progression – but that’s a very general statement. I know you are always very appreciative of the kind words people give you and you believe that they enjoy what you do, but you seem to struggle so much to truly accept that what you do IS actually excellent and worthwhile. It could be viewed as humility, which is a fantastic virtue to possess, but it seems to affect you negatively, which is obviously a great shame.

We’re all human, we’re all self-conscious about multiple facets of our lives. I constantly worry that the things I do aren’t up to scratch, or that I’m irrelevant to the causes I choose to involve myself in, but I guess I try to strike a balance so I can accept that there’s always room for growth, always someone else doing it better somewhere, but… I’m thankful for the people who do I appreciate the things I do and it motivates me to do more.

There’s most certainly no need for you to apologise, particularly with regards to the quality of your work, because I can find a thousand people who would all say – with total sincerity – that you are brilliant.

Perhaps you are just having one of those days. Chin up and keep smiling, you’ve got a nice smile, so use it!

Have fun in Belgium this weekend. :-)

]]> By: saes http://www.orsii.com/get-a-grip-woman/#comment-274 saes Fri, 16 Oct 2009 08:02:02 +0000 http://www.orsii.com/get-a-grip-woman/#comment-274 Hey man, I think it's best not to try and compare yourself to others (easier said than done!). I've been in that position where you look up to some people and then look down on others, it's not a productive mindset. We've all been indoctrinated to compete with other people, it starts in school where we're taught to compete with our class mates. That stuff is all bullshit. Life isn't a competition, never has been, never will be. Anyways, take it easy Saes Hey man, I think it’s best not to try and compare yourself to others (easier said than done!). I’ve been in that position where you look up to some people and then look down on others, it’s not a productive mindset. We’ve all been indoctrinated to compete with other people, it starts in school where we’re taught to compete with our class mates. That stuff is all bullshit. Life isn’t a competition, never has been, never will be. Anyways, take it easy
Saes

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